Willie, I don't think I would want to be in your shoes, my friend. If she's determined, then I guess she's going to do what she wants to in the end, anyway, so you might as well say "ok" or "do what you want to". If you make her mad, then you risk losing her altogether, I guess. I don't think you have to embrace it at all, just accept it. And look on the bright side....you don't have to plan or pay for a wedding! (Just trying to make you smile).