Thanks for sharing the news about Sugar as he adjusts to his new life. I hope he gets past this period of bumps and bruises soon and settles into the good life you are providing!

My cat Murf was not neutered until he was at least 2 1/2 years old. He definitely has the ear scars and notches to prove he was "all male" when he roamed the streets. But now he's a mellow loving cat, having learned to accept both new humans and new kitties. Your patience will pay off and in a few months you'll look back and see the changes clearly.

Best wishes for you and all your fur kids!