I really understand how you feel! Been there myself.

However---

If you don't have a journal of all the instances of harrassment, you really don't have a lot to present in court. If you can reconstruct, with dates and times, witnesses and specific acts, you MIGHT have a case. And it costs a lot in time, money and emotions to sue on a MIGHT. I would suggest just moving on.

It would be better for you to concentrate on the future. He will get his, maybe years from now and maybe you won't even know it. You really don't need him to control any more of your life than he already has.

I talked my problem out with a counselor a few times and got myself redirected. (Not a psychiatrist. United Way found someone who charged according to income.)

Mary