That is just so horrible. Poor dog and you and your family! I have a feeling she'll be leaving the best home she's ever had. I don't think you should have fought harder in this case. It would have just gotten nasty. I know you must be horribly upset. Give Annie some loving from all of us and hopefully you'll find a dog for you. As I said before, please don't forget petfinder.com. There are thousands of dogs there waiting for a good home like yours.