felinefanatic,

I forgot to mention, but I purchased a candle from a Pet memorial store, you light it every Monday at 10pm EST with everyone around the world missing their pets. It's been a wonderful source of comfort for me. My candle sits on my nightstand by a picture of my RB Lola (who I lost this May) and my wonderful 1st kitty Garfield. I also light it on other days when I am just plain missing them...it really helps to think maybe they can see my little light shining from up above!!!