I am the same way about Amy! I send emails to my son often checking on her and call several time when I am at work to see how she is and if she is OK... I keep her picture with me (along with the PT babies) and I talk to each and every one, every day when I am on the boat. I never considered it Obsessing, I am just a worried Mommie (and Auntie).

The special needs kitties are MORE special so we DO worry about them more and I don't see a thing wrong with that.