Well, your sister had to take a gentle chiding for letting the un-neutered stray out - but now she can keep a neutered and vaccinated cat, right? I think the people that had it done were being responsible and caring. Is your sister upset or glad or what? I am confused Since nobody answered the posters that she put up, hubby agrees to keep the cat - she can now have the cat, right?? Did I misunderstand anything??