Originally posted by Aspen and Misty
PIF- I think she doesn't want one because of spraying. Also, because she has a female cat at her house whom she has a great relationship with and I think she wants to have that with her new kitten and since her other one is a Female, she wants another one.

Also, she doesn't know his personlity, so how does she know he is the right one for her??

Ash
Male cats don't spay until they mature at 6 months old, if she gets him done straight away, he should never spay.

If she has an older cat in the house I would really recommend a second kitten (even if she goes elsewhere to get another girl), remember the trouble I had with George & Milly.

An adult cat needs time not bothered by a kitten. Having a pair ensures they bother each other more than they bother the older cat.

Personality...Well she has to meet him properly to make her own mind up about that.

Good Luck.