Cougie - this is a tough situation. The owners taking the time to post pictures is an indication that they care for the cat - BUT - on the other hand I can't see why they would let her roam. Anything could happen to this poor baby and almost did. I think I would explain that to the owner (not that it would do any good)and say it is with reluctance that your friend is willing to give her up. Gosh your friend has probably already fallen in love with her Keep us posted.