I forgot my point, my point was, we left my brother and sisters father. Not once do they mention him because they know how abusive he was, even though they were very little at the time. They want nothing to do with him at all because they know he's crazy, so I don't feel bad for them at all. Well I do feel bad they have an ass of a father, but I don't feel bad they don't get to see him. It's in their best interest that they never see him again, and truly, if my father was that way (which he isn't thank goodness! ) I wouldn't want anything to do with him either.