moosmom I have rescue remedy here.I have used it before for one of the dogs that was afraid of thunder.I thought about that when jazzcat suggested the Feliway but I wasn't sure about mixing the two things together allthough one is a scent in the air and one is swallowed.I was going to ask about that.I have a friend that uses rescue remedy when she brings new cat rescues home..I agree No scruffing here.
Thanks again everyone.I really apprecate all the advice.
Laurie