Meko is my first cat i am keeping, although i worked as a vet tech for years, volunteer at a couple local animal shelters & have had quite a few rescue/fosterers and I would say out of the majority, males are more cuddly & nicer.

Meko though is a female (shes only 5 months old though) but she is especially sweet compared to most females, I spend a bunch of time w/ her though & she knows a few tricks (shake paws, sit pretty, come when called, not to beg, & sit).