I'm so sorry for your loss.

Your step dad did what was right for Thor. I'm sure it wasn't an easy decision for him and that he believed that it was best to do it the way he did. He might have felt that he was sparing the rest of the family the anguish of the decision or it might be that Thor was suffering and waiting for the family would have only prolonged his pain.

Rest in peace Thor. It sounds like you found a very wonderful, caring family to spend the latter part of your life with. You will be missed.