My brother and I have always had a very close realationship. After are father died we got even closer. Now my brother and I hardly talk unless he has a computer problem that he needs help with. When I call him he is to busy hanging out with his friends for his 'little sister' to call him. He loves to party. He is 23 I am 21 I do not party at all. I can't stand it, it drives me nuts. My brother has hurt me several times with things he has said to me. I have always blown him off. That's just the kind of person I am. I can't face my problems head on I have to go around them and suffer with myself for not standing up for my self or not at least asking why some one said this or that.

If I was you I'm not sure what I would do. I would probably try to call him back and tell him not to interupt you and you can tell him how you feel what you think about him, what he needs to change and so on.

I have another brother as well, that I will never talk to as long as I live (thank god he is only a step brother) Same with my step sister. The two of them could fall off the face of the earth and I wouldn't care. I know that's harsh but they have said and done things to me that can never be forgivin.

Try and call him back and explain everything to him. That all you want is the brother you once had. I know people change but, they shouldn't ignore their brother/sister because you have nothing in common. My brother and I have almost nothing in common besides we have the same parents, and we both love animals. So when we get together ( I know this is going to sound very childish.) we wrestle just like we use to. We get are anger and frustration out that way. It works for us but I'm not sure if thats the way to go for you

Hope all that helped.

Katie