Originally posted by micki76
I'm sorry Tonya, but the only insinuation there is that people can be used and abused, not the same as insinuating that someone's dancing on a pole naked with pasties on.
I've only heard the used/abused terminology in reference to relationships (more often than not, involving the the man walking out after "getting what he wanted.") My apologies then, as I misunderstood your context.

and can someone --without offending anyone else-- tell me what pasties are?!