I will write the same thing I wrote to Zasper's mommy:

I know what you are going through.... ! You lost your cat only 3 weeks after I lost my dear Sydney! It is also 1 year ago now. It hurts to see those happy pics from then, but it also remembers you of the fact that this was a gorgeous happy cat. Try to remember the happy days you had with her/him; it is NOT easy, but it helps...!

What also helps ids the love I get from my 2 new cats Maya & Inka