Ok this has nothing to do witht he subject but it made me thing of my Aunt. 3 days after my father died my Aunt and Uncle showed up from New York. I went in side the house to get a drink of water. And all the sudden I hear my Aunt screaming at the top of her lungs. I run into the living room to see her running in circles and all the cats just watching her. She finally ran outside to my Uncle and said that there was a bug inside our house. My mom seen the bug and it was a misqueto ?spelling? And there was also a spider crawling around on the floor. So my Uncle came running in and killed the misqueto and but before he could get the spider the cats have taken care of it. I remember this part of that week clear as day. I don't think I ever laughed so much and so hard at my Aunt before. My Mom started laughing which was good for her as it was for all of us at the time. My mom told me that they were talking about my dad and what had happened the my Aunt got up and started screaming. I am glad I came in the house when I did or I would have missed it.