Hi and welcome: if you get an Aby you should get a baby. It makes the introduction to an older cat much easier. And tehre is nothing cuter than an Aby baby. All Abys I know love high places. My Filou loves to sit on my shoulder (the one in my avatar is not Filou, it's Tigris and he's only half Aby), to walk round my shoulder, to jump on cupboards or doors. Abys are lovable kitties that look for a lot of contact. They move a lot and are very playful. And if they get all that, it is absolutely nbo problem to keep them in the apartment