Souraya, I'm in a similar situation as you right now so I totally understand how you feel. When I started reading your message, I was really wanting you to adopt him. But if Drake is not going to get along with another male, then don't do it. You have a responsibility to keep Drake happy and healthy. If bringing in another doggy will prevent this, then its out of your hands.

Trust me, I completely understand the spot you're put in, but there are still things you can do to help. Try to see if there are any wolf hybrid rescues. Send out a note to email lists, yahoo groups, rescues you find on the internet, etc. You can even spread the news through word of mouth. Does Andrew have any friends who want a dog and can afford the money to go through training?

I am so sorry for you and you are so sweet for wanting to adopt. But we can't put Drake in a situation that will stress him out or even cause harm if they fight (which it sounds like they will). Do all you can to save this little hybrid's life, but if he gets put down, DO NOT BLAME YOURSELF PLEASE!!!!!!! It isn't your duty to take him in. You are doing all you can!

I am telling you this because more than once I have blamed myself for a dog's euthanization. Just do the best you can. If it doesn't work, there will be more to save. You are just one person and unfortunately can't save them all But every little thing you do helps.

You will be in my prayers. Good luck.


[ November 29, 2001: Message edited by: aly ]