Man! How many times do I have to say this? Just because I'm not old doesn't mean I'm ignorant. I've been to all the catfood and cat and spay and neuter and humane society sites there are! I know what all of you nutters think because I've even talked to some of you in real life and on the phone and which all where mean. I know all the lies the sites post "healthier, happier pet if neutered" and "more companionable". I will agree that males are nicer if altered at the right time and most tom cats refuse to come to people(except my Carlotta's boyfriend). I also read that cat's don't need one litter of kittens b4 spayed. It wouldn't be such a common question if having one litter was so much healthier.
Anyway, I do have friends and they aren't all crazy like you. I think it's stupid that you must recommend counciling for someone you don't even know. My best friends however are my cats. I would send you a picture if you would email me asking for one because it is quite a treat to lay your eyes one her.
This is the most negative illusional chatroom I've ever been too. I don't think I'll be coming back unless in a few generations-yes, when I'm old-your precious vets decide the trend is to not spay and neuter and keep indoors and all that nonsense. Posting will be quite useless now if it's agaist me. I don't care to listen to old freaks that don't exist.