First I'd like to say that no one is going to blow up on you I'm pretty sure. Your mom's heart is in the right place and it sounds like she's so very loving and caring. However, I stand firmly that the best thing to do is fixing them. I am going to have to do some thinking on how to convince her of that though. I will post some advice if I think of any. In the meantime, give your mom a hug for having such a heart.