She HAS someone else, Wom - but she won't let her help. This helper was so p'd off yesterday - and I remember getting this when I was still working there and my friend became manager: "Don't do the laundry. Don't do the dishes (which are the cat feeding dishes so heat sterilization is important)." Etc

Totally threw out my whole routine and with her picking on every little thing I was a wreck in no time. I am surprised her present help hasn't smacked her one!

She does not delegate authority and seems to think she has to do everything herself - and is likely overwhelmed as a result.