Hi everyone. Thank you dearly for the birthday wishes. I do appreciate it. Unfortunately, I just recieved devistating news and I have been in utter disbelief, as my favorite cousin, the son of my very most favorite Aunt in the whole world, died this morning. He was 39. We are not sure about the cause of death, my aunt wasn't able to say anything except that Ahren died, but I know that I want to be there for my aunt, who has always been there for me but I'm stuck in TX and she's in CA. I have my own car to drive and someone who can watch my children during the day while my husband is at work, but I lack the gas and food money to drive to be with my aunt. My heart is broken. My beautiful Aunt Carolyn lost her only child. My handsome, gentle cousin Ahren is gone. Ahren's 22 month old daughter Frankie will not remember how beautiful her daddy was. Sorry to dump this on you all, I just don't know what to do. I want to be with my aunt during this horrific time. This has been a most horrible day