My divorce is going to court...Update Mar 11

[wombat2u2004]

I wonder if a warrant for his arrest can actually be issued...

We could break his legs. He won't be able to run then.

[Queen of Poop]

Ok, you're going to love this....HE IS NOT GOING TO SHOW UP FOR THE QUESTIONING!!!!

His side sent yet another ridiculous 9 page document.

He won't be attending the questioning Tuesday, it will proceed without him and then......its going to get interesting.

[NicoleLJ]

My honest reaction? No surprise really. He wants to continue to make this as long and agonizing as he can. It is his last part of being able to control and/or abuse you in some way in his mind. He probably is getting a sense of power that he could be agravating you. Typical abuse/controling man.

Hugs to you. You are in Dougs and my thoughts. Can't wait to see where it goes from here. Hopefully in a more positive direction for you.

[Marigold2]

OK dumb question here, can't you just go to Vegas and get a quickie divorce?

Ok, you're going to love this....HE IS NOT GOING TO SHOW UP FOR THE QUESTIONING!!!!

His side sent yet another ridiculous 9 page document.

He won't be attending the questioning Tuesday, it will proceed without him and then......its going to get interesting.

[NicoleLJ]

OK dumb question here, can't you just go to Vegas and get a quickie divorce?

I don't think so. She lives in Canada. I think you have to be an american to do that. But I could be wrong.

[Catty1]

This divorce WOULD be quick if ex-hubby would settle the financial issues. There hasn't even been a counter-offer, nothing. I bet HIS lawyer is ready to strangle him!

[Queen of Poop]

You're right Nicole, its his last measure of control and I knew he'd not show. But this puts him in a bit of a legal mess now as he will be in contempt.

You're also right Candace, he will not settle equitably on the financial part so this questioning was to get that in order before it goes before a judge who will decide who gets what.

When the one year period came/went I requested we sever the divorce from the settlement so that I wouldn't have to be his wife anymore. He refused, said there was no good reason.

I will be working on a rebuttal to his 9 pages this weekend, my lawyer has a plan of action for Tuesday and we'll be in court right away. Good to have some action.

[Pinot's Mom]

This guy is something else. I'm sorry you have to deal with this. I HOPE his lawyer is getting fed up, but somehow I think he must be just as sick to put up with this.

{{{hugs}}}