Well she sure is adorable. I really can't help you with the food aggression though because both Alani & Blaze also have this. They're almost 10 months old and I have to feed them in my hall bathroom or else none of my other cats would ever get any of their food. I haven't been free feeding any of my cats for several years now because I've always had at least one piggy cat that would eat all of the food. I also have to watch my food because my orange twins will eat anything in sight if I let them. I'm also hoping that they'll outgrow this. I'm also hoping that they'll outgrow their destructive behavior too but that's another story. Good luck.