Lost a friend

[CatsMeow]

Belief in God is true but, God! Himself! Says that if you blindly follow me, you will not be among my favorites. You have to obey and listen to God, but following him the way you're telling about your friend is wrong, talk about God but it isn't necessary that they come in your every sentence. Its so sad that your friend is being taken away from you...

You're right. I'm a big-time God person, a Christian, but God isn't in my every sentence.

[lizbud]

Could be that this friend is not lost to you forever. Seems like right now
this church group is filling some need in her life that she doesn't find anywhere
else. People grow, people change, that's life. If you want to maintain a
friendship some where down the line, let her know that you care about her
and will be there if she ever wants to get back in touch. Wish her well, and
mean it, that's all you can do.

[Marigold2]

Thank you all for the kind words. This has been painful to me and to some of her other friends as well. We have been friends since we were 12, we are now all in our 50's.
We have been through weddings, births, death of our parents, grandchildren, car accidents, divorce oh my gosh you name it and the 5 of us have lived it, supported each other and laughed and cried together.
I am the one that is friends with all five and they all met through me.
She has pulled away from ALL of us.
She was always very religous, went to church all her life but now this church is different. This is more cult like.
This church thinks Oprah is a sinner and evil because she talks with gays and all manner of sinners people. Oprah is NOT to be watched. Oprah is going to hell.
How do you argue with that? You don't. It is so farfected so crazy so stupid I could not say anything. I am of course a horrible sinner since I watch this show and Desperate Housewives oh I am horrid horrid horrid evil sinner who will burn in hell.
How someone who knows me, who came to the hospital and sang and prayed with me while my mom was in a coma could feel this way now is so heartbreaking.
I love her like a sister, she is an only child and we were so close but this church is not a good thing. It is taking her away from all who love her and support her and have been her friends for over 30 years. We who have watched each other grow up, grow old, grow closer every year now we are no more.
Will I be there for her, always, so will the others even though their friendship to her stems through me, we all love her, want her to be happy.
I will just wait and hope that her kids will speak to her perhaps they can help her.
I think one of the problems is her daughter is seperated and might be getting a divorce from her husband, that of course makes daughter a sinner. I don't know what the church is saying about this, what kind of guilt or confusion this is causing my friend and how her relationship with daughter is. If she is spewing the hatred the church is then the relationship with her daughter can be in serious trouble too.
It's a scary thought what this church is doing to the family.

[caseysmom]

If you made any comments to her about her weight that are similar to the comments you have made to me I don't blame her one bit for staying as far away as she can get.

[wombat2u2004]

Lookout !!!! The cheerleaders have arrived.