I'm going to echo many sentiments here, and as someone who has gone through the same thing, I can sympathize. I don't know if you remember the thread, but I actually posted when Pinot started coming onto my lap - it was when I got my netbook, for some reason. I was thrilled. We had had her for well over a year at that point, and she had been adopted at ten months. It took my husband and I several years to get another kitty after our baby Jamara went to the bridge, and I missed the lap kitty so much. I had thought our Pinot just wouldn't be a lap kitty, then it changed. You may or may not have that happen; as everyone has said - they're all their own personalities. Don't force it, bond in your own way, and don't compare kitties. You'll find your bond, and it may or may not be your lap.

Don't worry, Donna, it's been such a short time!