Donna maybe she is just not going to be a lap kitty, as you well know not all of them are, out of my four I only have one who I would class as a semi-lap cat.

just accept her for herself, she will eventually show her purrsonality as time goes by, i know you want her to be like Mollie Rose, but it ain't gonna happen, she will be whoever SHE wants to be lol.Kitties Rule remember.