I really enjoy your threads Richard!

You make my family look like a bunch of Angels!!! Thank you!






>>>>my update:

I think I like my situation much better than yours........we communicate through our $$$$ attorneys and although it does cost a lot, we don't have the screaming-in-your-face fights like we use to. Now I get to read her side, scream and kick all I want, then my husband settles me down, I repy to Lawyer, and he makes my reply MUCH nicer than I would have ever!! He uses those big words that my sister cannot understand -Yeah, way to go!!!



We have an arbitration meeting on Friday, my father's attorney, my attorney, Tim & me, Sister & her attorney, plus a (paid, naturally) arbitrator will all be sitting down and trying to put this all to an end.

Oh how I wish this will be the end, but something in my heart is telling me that this will drag out - forever......and the sad part - my father is still alive, so if this does get settled, it will start all over again when he passes. So yes, this will never end!

>>>>end of my rant.




Remember Richard........YOU do NOT have to be everyone's keeper. You do what needs to be done by you, and eff them all! Sounds to me they are all still in denial and keep running to you with their problems, just because they know they can dump on you. Time for this to stop!

Good luck!! I know this won't be easy for you. <sorry!>