I talked with the animal communicator and got some great feedback regarding Neo's behavior. Basically, I need to give Neo a lot of space and quit coddling him because apparantly I am getting on his nerves. So, instead of giving him lots of hugs and kisses, I'm letting him do his own thing and come to me when he is ready for some lovins'. Its a little hard for me because my cat's are my fur-babies, but I also realize that my attitude is affecting his behavior and really making him mad!