Missing person - UPDATE Queen of Poop is ok - post #21

[Emeraldgreen]

It's hard to know the right thing to do at this point. If things are okay and she is trying to be private, police showing up might turn her life upside down. I hope that she has some offline friends that call on her, especially if they haven't seen her or heard from her in awhile.
I looked through some of her posts to see if there was a way to try and find her phone number. There is a post about a reading that Nancy did for a pet named Bon and Gayle mentioned that she was wondering if Nancy did readings for Canadian pets and someone PM'd her Nancy's info to which Gayle responded that she got the PM and had sent a query to Nancy. If that reading happened, I'm guessing that Nancy spoke with Gayle by phone or received a payment with a last name on a cheque or credit card? My thought is to try and contact her by phone if a last name can be found through Nancy.

[Lori Jordan]

I use Canada 411 daily,If you look there is a reverse lookup,When the number is found,You can type her number in,And if she has registerd her address with the number it will come up,Some dont..I dont have my address appear in the phonebook.

This first one is for the address
http://findaperson.canada-411.ca/reverse_phone

http://findaperson.canada-411.ca/reverse_address

I dont know if that will help,hope it does

[Karen]

Upon further searching, I have a number that is likely hers, that I will try Saturday, if she doesn't respond to my email.

[robinh]

It is possible that she is not posting because she thinks we don't "know" him. It's a very common defense mechanism. You don't want to believe that you will have to do something.

He may have convinced her that she can't possibly make it on her own. That she is too ______ (insert word ugly, stupid, etc.) to get another man. This is all her fault, if she would only ________ (insert word), things would be OK .

I know the last time my ex hit me, it was like hitting a wall that said "I can't do this anymore. Being alone HAS to be better."

Gayle;

If you're reading this, we miss you and we're worried. Just let one of us know you are OK. No judgments - just concern.

Robin

[pitc9]

My thoughts and prayers are with Gayle.

Please check in Gayle, we're all worried SICK about you.

[DJFyrewolf36]

I do hope she is ok for sure. Abusive situations are no good for a multitude of reasons, and sadly she could not be posting for a multiude of reasons. Gayle, I do hope things are going better for you and you found a solution that works and is healthy for everyone involved. Please, if you need help your PT friends are here for you. Even if you can't reply for some reason, do know you are not alone in this!

*HUGS* from Oregon

[lizbud]

Upon further searching, I have a number that is likely hers, that I will try Saturday, if she doesn't respond to my email.

Thanks for doing this Karen.

[Kater]

She is certainly in my thoughts! I'm glad Karen has found some way to get in touch with her....

[Catty1]

Thanks, Karen.

[Karen]

I just spoke to Gayle. She is fine, and was just having some quiet time on the couch with Diego when I called. She is just taking some time to get her head together and decide what she wants to do next. She does thank everyone for worrying about her, but says she is fine, and I even gave her a good chuckle.

So she is not missing any more, just taking a bit of a break from everything at the moment.