I am so sorry that your life is so stressful right now and pray that you are able to get the placement for your Dad. Last year, my cousin had to arrange for her Mom, my favorite aunt, to be placed in a nursing home and my aunt just hated it at first. It took her about 3 months to get use to the idea and now she is so happy to have so many friends she can talk to and to take part in the activiites that they have planned on a daily basis. She is not alone anymore and enjoying her life once again.
I pray that your Dad will feel like this also.

Prayers on the way for your precious Lucky, that whatever is bothering him, isn't serious and can be dealt with, with the proper medication.

{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}} for you Bunny.