Got a new kitten today...Need Advice!

[Freedom]

Let him proceed at his own pace. When you go in to 'visit,' be sure to smell nice == food or treats in hand!!! Even if he doesn't take them from you, or if he is too nervous to eat in front of you just yet, it helps to build the bond!

[Laura's Babies]

Also, go in there often and talk to him. Don't try to force yourself on him you just want him use to your voice. Talk soothing sweet things to him. He will get use to you, it will just take time... Don't try to force it!

[KittyCrazy]

Thanks for the advice! I didn't even think to offer him a couple of pieces of food where he is. I have been going in about once every hour to talk to him and he does nuzzle his head into my hand when I reach in to gently rub his neck. I'll keep reassuring him that he is safe and welcome here and let him come out on his own terms.

Is it likely that he'll be too afraid to come out to use the litterbox and then pee or poo under the bed? I sure hope not.

[krazyaboutkatz]

Congrats on your new kitten!!! You've already been given some great advice. I've heard of some cats hiding under the bed for 3 weeks because they were so scared. Hopefully this won't be the case with him. I'm sure he'll be able to find the litter box and will use it but if you're worried about this then you may want to put it closer to the bed.

So will your son be sleeping in this room? If so then the kitten may be too scared to come out until he gets used to your son. Good luck and I look forward to seeing some pictures of him.

[catnapper]

Congrats on your new baby. Let him come out at his own pace (which you've already heard) but I have also found that laser lights do wonders for shy kitties. They can't ignore the call to pounce on a bright red moving light It also helps you bond with him.

[Medusa]

Yep, everyone has given you great advice. Just lie on the floor and coo to him under the bed. A soft tone of voice does wonders. If he advances to you, let him rub against you before you reach out to pet him. He'll come around. Can't wait to see pix! Congratulations!