thanks so much, I will certainly apply for help. I work at a network operations center. I feel bad for asking my new co-workers for help... but it might be worth a shot. He is so sweet... grey striped with white paws, lil kitten face... he has spots on his tummy... he also doesnt meow.. he makes no noise at all..... perhaps that's why i cant tell he's in pain - he jumps and runs around like a nut though...