Need some advice ASAP!

[Taz_Zoee]

This line: she said "if theres anything i need to know about him email me at my address" makes me feel that she may already have suspicions and wants to know how it was with you. Otherwise, why would she say that?

Although, this could become stressful for you and you don't need that so close to the end of your pregnancy.

Good luck in whatever you decide to do.

[BitsyNaceyDog]

I think you should stay out of it. You don't know what your ex will do if he finds out you have been in further contact with her. You have a baby due out soon and she needs to be your main concern. For the girls sake I hope he has changed though it isn't likely. Anything you tell her probably won't be of any surprise to her anyway, so keeping yourself distanced is probably best for both you and your baby.

[Catty1]

Ask a counsellor or the police, maybe...

ETA: Two thoughts - if you were in her shoes, and got the full story, what would you do?

I think she should have the facts (even just the fact of the restraining charge is enough) ONLY if she has a plan to LEAVE. Otherwise, she will be in MAJOR doo-doo, and you might be in danger as well.

JMO

[Cataholic]

You would risk anything at this point? WHY can't you just focus on you and the baby? WHY???

When I was days away from delivering, I wanted nothing but positive in my life. Calm, peace, finish up the chores, etc.

Just walk away from all this. Please.

[Lori Jordan]

I would say something.

It is really scary the way things work in the world we live in today,This past year there has been 3 women in my area that have been killed by there husbands and boyfriends.

If he put his hands on you nothing will change,And she probably has been in the same situation you have been in,Or she would not if made that remark...

It could get worse,If he can raise his hand to strike a woman im sure he is capable of much more.We would never think it but there is so many relationships these days ending in death and the other one in jail.

But after if you do tell her,and she still stays with him,Wash your hands.
You have warned her and she has to make that decision not you.

Dont let yourself get stressed over this,You need to be number one in your life,Not an ex's girlfriends problem...

StressFree is where you need to be right now!

[jackie]

If he put his hands on you nothing will change,And she probably has been in the same situation you have been in,Or she would not if made that remark...

Sorry, don't agree with the comment that if he did it once he will do it again.

I have been in a very abusive relationship, ending in a restraining order and sentencing for him. Did he do it before, I don't think so. Do I think he would do it again, nope.

Different place different person, different time.

I still think you should keep focused on you and your child, move on.

[Rachel]

I'm in the camp that feels you need to stay as far away from anything to do with him and anyone else he is involved with as you possibly can.

There is someone else who is your priority to protect now. This person (GF) is an adult who has other people in her life with whom to consult on what's going on in her life. Personally I don't think you should even know who his current girlfriend is!!! You aren't the one to protect others from Jason.

Just my humble opinion.

[Pawsitive Thinking]

What puzzles me is why she added you in the first place