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    I would say, LET HER KNOW!

    NO ONE deserves to be in the same situation you were once into, and you're out of it.. which is a great thing! So, warn her.
    You're the one sure thing I've found so you better stick around...
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    definitely tell her

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    tell her. tell your friends, tell her friends and if he ever contacts you, tell the cops and the DA fast
    joyce who has princess peanut, spokesdog for the catpack, mojo, magic, kira and squirty, members of the catpack, angel duke, a good dog who is missed and angel alex the wonder dog, handsome prince.

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    She needs to know!
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    Do tell her what happened, so she doesn't dismiss any abuse as "oh, I must have done something to deserve that." Include that you wish her happiness, and hope he has changed but don't bank on it. and she should be aware to be safe.

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    You are with someone new, you are having a baby soon, it is nothing to do with you.

    If she messages you again, tell her to speak to her boyfriend.

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    I like Karens advise telling her you hope (for her sake) that he has changed but also tell her you do have a restraining order on him and perhaps she should ask him what caused the courts to grant it. If she wants details she can ask. Wouldn't details be available in public court records if she wants to look into it? I wouldn't get into too many details, maintain your dignity. I too have been there and understand the mindset abuse can cause
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