I'd say tell her. She asked. And it sounds like the controlling has already started. She needs to run for the hills!
Luv my kitties!
I'd say tell her. She asked. And it sounds like the controlling has already started. She needs to run for the hills!
Gayle - self proclaimed Queen of Poop
Mommy to: Cali (14 year old kitten)
(RB furbabies: Rascal RB 10/11/03 (ferret), Sami RB 24/02/04 (dog), Trouble RB 10/08/05 (ferret), Miko RB 20/01/06 (ferret) and Sebastian RB 12/12/06(ferret), Sasha RB 17/10/09 (border collie cross), Diego RB 04/12/21
I'm a Buckeye
I would say, LET HER KNOW!
NO ONE deserves to be in the same situation you were once into, and you're out of it.. which is a great thing! So, warn her.
You're the one sure thing I've found so you better stick around...Best Fireman in da House´10
dedicated to the kindest,loveliest and always helpful man that one would be honored and proud to know........R.I.P. Dear Phred
Registered User
definitely tell her
walks with ghost dogs
tell her. tell your friends, tell her friends and if he ever contacts you, tell the cops and the DA fast
joyce who has princess peanut, spokesdog for the catpack, mojo, magic, kira and squirty, members of the catpack, angel duke, a good dog who is missed and angel alex the wonder dog, handsome prince.
Sierra & Buddy's Mom
She needs to know!
~Angie, Sierra & Buddy
**Don't breed or buy while shelter dogs die!**
I suffer from multiple Shepherd syndrome
Mayor
Do tell her what happened, so she doesn't dismiss any abuse as "oh, I must have done something to deserve that." Include that you wish her happiness, and hope he has changed but don't bank on it. and she should be aware to be safe.
Registered User
You are with someone new, you are having a baby soon, it is nothing to do with you.
If she messages you again, tell her to speak to her boyfriend.
Registered User
I like Karens advise telling her you hope (for her sake) that he has changed but also tell her you do have a restraining order on him and perhaps she should ask him what caused the courts to grant it. If she wants details she can ask. Wouldn't details be available in public court records if she wants to look into it? I wouldn't get into too many details, maintain your dignity. I too have been there and understand the mindset abuse can cause
~ at least I'm not...
Posting Permissions
Copyright © 2001-2013 Pet of the Day.com
Reply With Quote
Bookmarks