Could his girlfriend convince him?

I know here in Alberta, professionals can do an 'in-home' assessment. That way they will come to him.

A regular GP can't do the assessment - but may know someone who can.

Call an association like Eldercare, or even a good seniors' home. The staff can help you with who to call.

Try these also:
http://www.ilrg.com/practice/assistelderly.html

http://www.ec-online.net/

http://www.usatoday.com/money/perfi/...re-cover_N.htm EXCELLENT ARTICLE

http://www.pcusa.org/nationalhealth/...vers/index.htm BROWSE through this and see what catches your eye.