I wasn't trying to guilt you into taking Hunter in, believe me. That's a personal decision and you know better than anyone what your circumstances are. In the beginning, Specs and Boo went at it every day. And I mean every single day. Fur flying everywhere. Boo was the alpha male but he's 17 now and he's tired. Fortunately, the two of them worked things out somehow in their cat brains and it's pretty peaceful. But for a long time after I took Specs in, I regretted it and I was dating a guy at that time who just plain guilted me into it. I told him to take Specs himself but, of course, he wouldn't do that because he was at his limit, he said. Later, he took 3 more cats in, so that wasn't the truth. He just didn't want a sprayer. (Who can blame him?) I know you'll do the right thing by Hunter as do all the PTers. I just thought you might enjoy hearing that you're not alone.