This exact same thing happened to me with Bassett. She is my very precious girl. While I love all three of my babies, she captured my heart first. When I got Tilly she was pretty mad, and for a while would ignore me and give me really long sad looks. It broke my heart and I almost took Tilly back. But after a while Bassett came around and her and Tilly became very close friends. Then I brought Nutmeg home. Bassett doesn't really care for her but she tolerates her. Nutmeg is like Basil; whenever I am giving loves to my other two girls she comes and finds me. It's sweet but it hurts that I don't have three of me to go around. Anyway, Bassett did forgive me. I'm SURE cats ignore their moms to spite us because I know Bassett loves me, she was just P.O.ed. Noah is probably saying the same thing. When I see that Nutmeg is asleep somewhere, I go and find Bassett and pick her up bring her to me. Even though she pretends to not like it she does like the extra attention. Tilly seems to be pretty well adjusted; she comes and finds me when Nutmeg is asleep or they both sleep on my lap together.

I feel your pain but I'm sure it will work itself out. Whenever you have the chance, give Noah some really special alone time with you.. bring him with you to the shower and keep him with you while you get ready in the morning.. let him know you still want him there.. and he will know that he is still your number one Noah