i like # 3. on your 2 original photos your hair is off your forehead, is this cause you don't like hair on your forehead or is the growth pattern not agreeable to #2, my second choice? what does your face in profile look like? what does your usual stylist say? how much time to style? i have a bob with sideswept bangs and when i lean forward, the hair can get in the way, a lot.
and you look good with the weight loss.