Thank you all for your nice comments and understanding. Amy, your song left me crying - good thing I'm all alone at work today. No you have never shared that song with me. I would love to hear the music that goes with it sometime.

Logan, I think that like so many others, I feel like you are all friends and family. You all shared our grief when Rob died, it seems only fitting to share other parts of him. I also chose to do this because Randi posted John's gravestone and I thought it was interesting to see the differences in even the cemetery where John is. The bush hedge that marks his gravesite is so different than anything you see here. And the fact that you can plant whatever plants you want (do I have that right, Randi?).