Not good news re nieces baby girl.....

[Karen]

We'll keep the baby in our prayers. What's her first name? Poor wee thing, hopefully her life will improve soon.

[Marigold2]

I am so sorry Carol. I am a great believer in adoption. A lot of these young girls just have NO idea what it means to be a mom, it's a lifetime job. When I hear young girls say " I want to have a baby" I just want to smack some sense into them. It's ONLY a baby for a year of two. I am sure that things will work out for the best. Positive thoughts are being sent to you.

[carole]

Thanks for the kind thoughts, yes i cannot get my mind off that poor baby, i only know so much, what i have been told through a friend of a friend who knows her,but i am confident the rumours are true,i really did have bad vibes the last time i visited.

I feel angry with Carly for not taking care of Alleyah,but part of me knows her own upbringing especially in the teen years was lacking, her mother abandoned her for a lifestyle of drugs,music and a useless man,and her father although a very presentable guy,used to beat her mother up and is now beating up his latest girlfriend,Carly has an elder brother who is very close to my son,and he has turned out pretty good, i think he too is at his wits end ,as he has tryed hard to turn his sister's life around, and i think he has had enough.

I trust my husband's sister to take good care of the baby or to see to it that Alleyah is ok,i have many other issues with her, but in this one i feel that she will do what is best for the baby.

[kimlovescats]

Carole, I know too well how you feel. It sounds much like the situation with my daughter Amy Beth, her criminal / drug addict husband and my innocent grandbaby, Jenna.

HUGS,
Kim

[carole]

Oh kim i know that you can empathise with this situation, i have read your threads and my heart just ached for you, i am not closely involved really, but all the same i still feel for that baby, i just have to hope my husbands sister does the right thing for that baby girl.

[moosmom]

Carole,


I will keep your niece and her baby in my thoughts and prayers.

[Kirsten]

Why oh why do people have children when they cannot be responsible enough to care for them.

I'm often wondering about this myself!! And I cannot blame you for wishing the baby girl may be taken away from your niece. Sounds like she has too many demons of her own to fight with.

I'll keep your niece and her little baby in my thoughts!

Kirsten