I think Ivy is going back to his breeder or original owner.

**Anikaca77** · 07-14-2007, 09:01 AM

Dear..you have a hard decision to make...it's never easy and I understand what you mean about being young and not expecting this to ever happen...You will make the right decision for you Duckie and Ivy....

Please take time is the best decision and take care of yourself and those babies...

Originally Posted by buttercup132

Sorry for no updates. I got into a bit of a tussle with the breeder and she sent a pretty hurtful email back. For now I would like to keep it to myself what it was about but just thought I'd fill you guys in a little.

**heidiv** · 07-14-2007, 06:42 PM

What a dear sweet little kitty!! I have been away for sometime but if you don't mind me asking did Ivy cost big$$$$$????? I am sure that he did if he is a hairless kitty aren't they prone to allergies in general???? I guess I would go that route first if I had to make the decition. See if that is a possibility????? Going back to his breeder might not be the best thing for him. Is there a hairless rescue in your area that could take him if you aren't out a ton of money? I understand how much of a pickle you feel you are in right now I wouldn't know what to do either. But I am thinking that if possibly it could be something else I would see if that is at all a possibility and then go from there. There are a ton of groups out there that could possibly help him. Man if I could, I would consider taking him and giving him a good life for as long as I could. Let me get on line with a purebred rescue lady that I know from my state of Wisconsin and see if this might be an option it they would take care of him. I will just ask and see what I find out????? I am here for you no judgements this has got to be a hard thing to be dealing with. Support only from this girl. ((((HUGS)))) for the distress this must be causing you. Let me do my work and I will get back to you soon! Give that little sweety a big hug from me.

**moosmom** · 07-14-2007, 08:46 PM

JennLibrarian is right. There are things you breeders do that would curl your hair!!!

If a breeder feels that there's a "defective" cat, and it will make their cattery look questionable, they will put the cat to sleep.

I'm not saying that Ivy's breeder would do that or that all breeders do that, just that some breeders have been known to do that.

**Catty1** · 07-14-2007, 09:06 PM

buttercup...my internet was down from yesterday morning til Just Now...

I am sorry the breeder sent you a hurtful email.

From your earlier posts, she was suggesting that Ivy didn't have to see a specialist...that what they found wouldn't make any difference.

It was suggested to just treat the symptoms. In this case, get the vet to try some meds to stop the cough.

AGAIN - is the coughing worse when he is playing or running? If it IS, then the breeder said it probably is the heart murmur.

If NOT - then the cough is something else, and might be easily treated.

I know you posted this a long time ago - but when does Ivy's coughing happen? Is there anything that seems to make it better or worse?

**buttercup132** · 07-15-2007, 04:34 PM

I talked with the person I got him from again and after the e mail I got before from the breeder I decided she's not the person I thought she was and don't feel comfortable giving Ivy back to her anymore.
The person I got him from said if she re sells him she will tell the person about his murmur and give them all his vet papers. If she decides not to re sell him he will get take him to the vet.
Please don't be mad in my desicion.

**Whisk_Luva** · 07-15-2007, 04:36 PM

Wait... are you giving him back or not?

Either way I respect your decision (sp?)

**buttercup132** · 07-15-2007, 04:43 PM

Originally Posted by Whisk_Luva

Wait... are you giving him back or not?

Either way I respect your decision (sp?)

Yes I'm giving him back to the person I got him from.

**momcat** · 07-15-2007, 05:20 PM

Originally Posted by buttercup132

[b][color=navy]Please don't be mad in my desicion.

After reading through your thread, how could anyone be mad about your decision? Unfortunately this was a very difficult and painful decision you had to make. If I were in your place I honestly don't know what I would have done. When you adopted Ivy you had no idea of what his situation really was and found yourself in a terrible situation with no real options. Give credit where it's due, you didn't rush into anything and contacted the right people (for better or worse). My prayers are going out for both you and Ivy. If you can, please let us know what happens?

**Catty1** · 07-15-2007, 06:05 PM

Good job, Buttercup...I hope this lady will keep you updated. His coughing is maybe something she can get checked, and can be treated ok.

I hope she keeps you updated...would be nice to see Ivy pics, if she is willing.

I hope Ducky doesn't get too lonely...there might be a Sphynx rescue somewhere with another nekkid cat that needs a good home. Check the adoption fees first. Moosmom might know of one or two.

Give the little guy a hug for me!

Ya done good in a really difficult decision.