Quote Originally Posted by Cataholic
Of course, Vela presents one very "valid" reason for the lack of attendance at a wedding. In my experience, it seems more likely that the person can't be bothered to attend the wedding (it is at a church, too staid, too dress-uppy), but, bring out the free alcohol, and the person is there.

I think it is rude, and more of a thing with the younger set. I couldn't imagine attending a celebration honouring the newlyweds, when I couldn't be bothered witnessing the ceremony.

Just my .02.
Yay Johanna, I agree with you completely. But, I couldn't think of a way to phrase it that satisfied me. I think you did a good job of saying what I was thinking.

I think it is more of a "younger generation" thing. The whole point of attending a wedding is to take part in a very sacred and happy occasion, you then celebrate with those that participated. If you just want to have a drink and a dance, get together with the newlyweds next Friday night.