I am nobody to tell you what to do. But, my advice is follow your heart. Use your gut instinct. My folks live in Arizona and I moved with them back in '99...I didn't want to go, but my kids' dad was working with my dad and I had no choice. Or so I thought. Well, I came back to Illinois about six months later (due to a pregnancy and needed my original doctor). If I had ended up going back, leaving my "home" in Illinois, I would have never met Dave and started my rescue. Things happen for a reason. I think you should talk to your parents, just you and your parents. Wait to talk to your sister. Have a heart to heart with them. Maybe you could stay with a relative and finish school, go out there on breaks and summer, then maybe move out there after school with your boyfriend. There are options. Just keep an open mind either way. Good luck. I hope I helped a little.

By the way, not to confuse you more, but Arizona is not too bad. It is always summer, even in winter. It is much cheaper out there and it is not all desert!! I still like Illinois better!