{{{hugs}}}

Kim, there is a saying I like, and I don't mean to be irreverent at all - it goes like this: "I might as well give my problems to God - He's going to be up all night anyway."

Now, I know there is no way this can really happen for you - this is all so upsetting...I am just suggesting that, as much as you can and gently, turn what you can over to your higher power right now, the outcome in His hands. I don't know if you can sleep, but "sleeping on this" might give you the solution in the morning.

You have done all you can for this girl.

But - I never have been a parent. I am sure others here will have wisdom that comes from that.

{{{{hugs}}}} again.