How Do You Handle This?

[Logan]

We live and learn, don't we? I'm sorry you have had such a bad experience, Val. You don't deserve it.

Just know that you will continue to be in my prayers.

Logan

[KitCat]

I spend much more time with my family than I used to. As far as friends go, I have almost turned into a hermit! Luckily my kitty is a "good person".

[momoffuzzyfaces]

Gosh, do I know this song by heart. The one who I thought was my best friend from high school, for over 25 years, did the same to me.

Took a while, and a lot of tears, but I finally was able to forgive her. Won't ever forget it but I just found the good things still in my life (like Pet Talk) and hung on to that and let the rest go.
(((HUGS)))

[lizbud]

I spend much more time with my family than I used to. As far as friends go, I have almost turned into a hermit! Luckily my kitty is a "good person".

Yes, and my pups and kitties are good friends too. I am a lot like that
too lately. Sorry you're going through this now.

p.s. I am a true believer that forgiveness helps the one who does the forgiving..

[dukedogsmom]

Thanks everyone. Lots of good advice here. I agree with Wombat and Mike. Also, I'm going to try to do the forgiveness thing for me. It truly is just hurting me by dwelling on it. Just hard not to, you know?

[wombat2u2004]

You could do what they do in New Zealand.
Cover yourself in tattoos, stick your tongue out at them, and then hit them over the head with a club.
That works sometimes. Carole will back me up on that one.
Wombat

[dukedogsmom]

You could do what they do in New Zealand.
Cover yourself in tattoos, stick your tongue out at them, and then hit them over the head with a club.
That works sometimes. Carole will back me up on that one.
Wombat

Ha ha! Well, I do have a few tattoos......

[CathyBogart]

I hold grudges...and I can tell you, that is not the way to go.