thnks for the ideas, I like C.C moms ideas
I am not sure yet if I want to scatter them in the back yard, she loved going out there the few times she could manage to get out there
or to get a nice urn and a pic of her. the grave and marker idea is nice too. guess I still have to think about it.

fuzzy
I don't think that sounded strange, either.

Niina
It didnt sound to me that you were babbering.