My adorable "Peacekeeper" is driving me...

**kimlovescats** · 02-12-2007, 07:23 PM

Poor handsome boy! Well that settles it ... you'll just have to get Nugget another baby!

**jenluckenbach** · 02-12-2007, 07:25 PM

Nugget, with the empty-nest syndrone!! Who'd of thunk it???

**rg_girlca** · 02-12-2007, 07:27 PM

LOL!!!! I knew you guys would say something like that.
I don't think another kitty could ever replace sweet widdle PeaPod though.

I try to distract Nuggy Nou, by playing with him, but that doesn't last long.
Maybe I will have to arrange visitations rights for him.

**Freedom** · 02-12-2007, 07:54 PM

Whoa, I don't remember seeing him before (maybe I was too focused on Peapod). He looks like a cloud! And his eyes are sky blue.

Has he been with you long? Mr. Amber Cat always meaowed this time of year, a neutered male. Maybe?

**Laura's Babies** · 02-12-2007, 08:04 PM

If he bonded that well with Pea Pod, he is still missing him. I forget how long Chester misses Wally and Marty but it was a long time that he sat in that room and cried and then he would just go in there and sit quietly with the saddest look. I use to cry because he was so sad that it broke my heart. You will have to be careful that he don't bond with anymore that you may bring your house if he falls in love that easily. I learned my lesson with Chester.

It is to heartbreaking seeing them grieve and missing one because they don't understand they have went to a good home and will be OK... All they know is they are gone and they miss them.

Nugget will get over this but it is heartbreaking to see. It does take awhile.

**Catty1** · 02-12-2007, 08:14 PM

Dumb idea...but would taking Nugget in a carrier to see them be weird?

All I can think of is giving him time and lots of loves, and/or another kitten...

Peacemakers have such sweet and gentle hearts...they crack easily...

Here's one idea...pet communicators often communicate with pictures. I am not psychic...but when you look into Nugget's eyes, picture Peapod as you last saw him, happy in his new house. Allow the picture of the room he is in to appear...let the picture fill your mind while looking at Nugget, and think of the picture as "going" to him.

If he "sees" PeaPod as okay, that might help.

crazy? Maybe. But another excuse to look into those beautiful eyes!

**rg_girlca** · 02-12-2007, 11:43 PM

Freedom, here is a link of when I first got Nugget if you would like to read it;
http://petoftheday.com/talk/showthread.php?t=103376

Laura, yes Nugget did bond very fast with PeaPod from the first time they met. Nugget was always by him and grooming him. It is heartbreaking and I hope he gets over it soon. I have noticed that today seemed to be a better day. He only meowed around about 4 times today.

Catty1, I was just joking about the visitation rights. I think that would hurt him more to see him and then be taken away from him. I don't know if I would be able to concentrate enough to stare at him and put pictures in my head because, when I do stare into his eyes, he gives this cute little bopping of his head and comes out with the cutest little brrp, brrps that it just melts my heart. Then I lose all focus and have to pet him.

I guess I will just have to try and give him more attention until he gets over it. Poor guy.